As the Father has loved me, so
I have loved you; abide in my love. If
you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my
Father’s commandments and abide in his love.
I have said these things to you so that my joy may be in you, and that
your joy may be complete.
This is my commandment, that
you love one another as I have loved you.
No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s
friends. You are my friends if you do
what I command you. I do not call you
servants any longer, because the servant does not know what the master is
doing; but I have called you friends, because I have made known to you
everything that I have heard from my Father.
You did not choose me but I chose you.
And I appointed you to go and bear fruit, fruit that will last, so that
the Father will give you whatever you ask him in my name. I am giving you these commands so that you
may love one another.
You know that feeling
when you walk into a movie that has already started, when you tune into an
episode of your favorite show that began five minutes ago, or when you walk up
on a conversation already in progress and you’re just trying to catch up? Do you know that feeling? That is sort of the feeling we get from how
the lectionary has divided this morning’s Scripture reading.
Today’s text starts at
the halfway point of one of Jesus’ teachings.
This afternoon, after you have taken your Mom out for lunch, of course,
go back and look at verses 1-8 of the 15th Chapter of John’s Gospel to refresh
yourself on what Jesus had to say about him being the vine, us being the
branches, and how God prunes the branches so they will bear fruit. In short, God is glorified when our lives bear
fruit, and the branches that don’t bear fruit, well, read your Bibles this
afternoon and see what happens to them.
As we will see in today’s reading, we should expect the faithful who
abide in Christ to always produce a harvest of God’s fruit, fruit that will
last. May we pray.
As many of you know, my
father is a retired Methodist minister, which meant our family moved from time
to time. What you may not know is that
my mother grew up on a farm in Western Pennsylvania. And so, in the backyard of every parsonage we
lived in, Mom typically had a small vegetable garden and also planted a few
fruit trees. It became a running joke in
our family that if Mom planted fruit trees or blueberry bushes or raspberry
bushes - we were sure to move the following year. In fact, I wouldn’t be surprised if there
wasn’t one or two churches where Dad said to my Mom, “Julie, plant some fruit
trees in the backyard so next year we can get outta here!”
Have you seen that
television commercial where kids are running around on the soccer field, and
the one kid is dressed like a carton of french fries and another looks like a
donut with arms and legs? It’s an ad for
some nutrition supplement for kids, and the know-it-all soccer mom whose kid is
running up and down the field and scoring all the goals leans over to the mom
of french-fry boy and sorta condescendingly says, “Well you know, kids are what
they eat!”
We are what we eat, as
are plants, to continue using the analogy of Jesus in this text. Whatever a plant consumes has a direct impact
on the fruit it produces.
I spent a summer in
college making wine. One of the things I
learned was that not all grapes are equal.
For instance, take two Niagara grapes - the most popular white grape grown
in America. Because they are both
Niagara grapes, you’d think they taste the same, right? As it turns out, they could taste completely
different depending on a variety of factors, including how much sun and rain
they got, whether they were on an east-facing or west-facing slope, and the
particular characteristics of the soil in which their vines were planted. You are what you eat - what goes in
determines what comes out. Root
determines fruit. Say that with me: Root
determines fruit.
Or, I think of the
flowers Ashley and I have planted. Here
are two photos I took yesterday morning of some of the petunias in front of our
house - some of which are in a pot, and the others of which are in the
ground. All of these flowers were
initially the same size, bought and planted on the same day, are 20 feet apart
from each other, and receive essentially identical amounts of sun and water,
and are subject to the same temperature.
And yet, one group is rooted in good, expensive, nutrient-rich soil from
the garden center, and the other in bad clay - and look at the difference it
makes. What goes in determines what
comes out; we are what we eat. Root
determines fruit. Say that with me: Root determines fruit.
The same can be said for
our lives. Take two people who are
otherwise identical, yet one whose life is rooted - I mean rooted - in the
love, forgiveness, and grace of God and the other whose life is rooted in
anything else; I guarantee you will be looking at two people whose lives are
producing vastly different kinds of fruit.
Whatever you have rooted your life in will directly determine the fruit
you produce. If the root is love, then
the fruit is love. Say that with me: If the root is love, then the fruit is
love.
In the stories of Jesus
and particularly in today’s text, a strong correlation is made between
faithfulness and fruitfulness, yet for whatever reason, we have perhaps been
overly contended to be faithful, and not terribly concerned with being
fruitful.
Fruitful is never optional for the faithful, as Jesus describes faithful people in this
way - those who “abide in his love” (v. 9).
Abide simply means “to wait,” “to endure,” “to remain stable,” or, and
here’s the one to pay attention to, “to dwell in or live with.” And so those who abide in Christ’s love
“live” in his love. Think of it this way
- if you’re an American, where do you live?
America. How about if you’re a
Canadian? You live in Canada. How about if you’re a Brazilian? You live in Brazil. Now, how about if you’re a Christian - where
do you live, then? The same principle
applies. If an American is someone who
lives in America and a Brazilian is someone who lives in Brazil, then a
Christian is someone who lives -- you got it -- in Christ.
And so, if we live in
Christ, if we are literally rooted in his love, a bumper crop of the fruit of
Christlike love is the inevitable result.
The faithful life is always a fruitful life. If the root is love, then the fruit is love. Say that with me: If the root is love, then the fruit is love.
In verse 12, Jesus says,
This is my command; that you love one another just as I have loved you.” The fruit of his life is unconditional love
toward us, and the fruit of our life is to be unconditional love back toward
him and toward each other. Now, as we
talk about love, put away all of those images of love that make it sound like a
puppy-dog wrapped in rainbows covered in hugs dipped in chocolate sauce. Love
is not a feeling or an emotion; love is an action, love is a choice.
Jesus wants us to know
that love is an action. He says,
“Greater love has no one than this: than to lay down one’s life for one’s
friends” (v. 13). Perhaps one thing we
need to do here is understand the term “friend” as Jesus uses it. He says in verse 14 that those who do his
command (read that as those who love as he loves) are his friends. To Jesus and indeed to his entire culture, to
call someone a “friend” meant something much deeper than the casual way we use
the term. For instance, I have almost
1500 facebook friends; how meaningful a personal relationship with them do you
think I honestly have? I have facebook
friends who I don’t have a clue who they are, let alone why I ever accepted
their friend request in the first place.
Honestly, I have facebook friends who are people I don’t even like all
that much! How casually we use the word,
“friend!” We meet someone who finds out
we have a mutual acquaintance, perhaps someone we went to high school with but
haven’t even spoken to in 15 years, and we say, “Oh yeah, I know so-and-so,
he’s a friend of mine!” Maybe this is
just me, but if I haven’t talked to someone in 15 years, I question whether we
have cheapened the word “friend.”
Aristotle said that a
friend is somebody who helps you to be wise or good; and Kierkegaard said that
to love another person is to help them love God, and to be loved is to be
helped in loving God. Sounds like what
Jesus was talking about.
Did you ever think of the
people Jesus chose in the first place?
Fishermen, tax collectors, low-lives, brawlers - outcasts and social
rejects, really. It’s almost as if
anybody can be a friend of Jesus, even the most unlikely sorts of folks,
perhaps even people like you and me.
When Jesus calls us
friends, he is saying that we are deeply, profoundly, intimately connected to
him. He is saying that he has given us a
bond to him that cannot be broken or severed.
Being a friend was a position of honor, it was akin to being named
family with all the responsibilities that go along with that. In fact, when Jesus says friend, just think
to yourself “family.”
Like family, Jesus didn’t
give us a choice in the matter. He never
asked if we wanted to be his friends.
What’s more scandalous, he never asked if I wanted to be friends with
his friends. Have you ever hung out with
someone who brings another friend along - the friend-of-a-friend, and they are
the most obnoxious person on the planet and there’s no way you ever want to see
them or hang out with them again? It
causes you to question your friendship with your mutual friend, and you may
find yourself avoiding that friend just so you don’t have to interact with their
other friend.
But Jesus doesn’t give us
a choice. He chooses us to be his
friends, and he chooses everyone else to be his friends, and he says “You are
ALL my friends, whether you like each other or not!” Remember, when Jesus calls us friends, he’s
really sort of called us “family.”
You don’t choose your
family. I have weird cousins. So do you, probably. Not only that, but I’m sure I am somebody’s
weird cousin, and I’m sure you’re somebody’s weird cousin, and guess what,
we’re all stuck with each other whether we like it or not. Jesus chooses his friends and bestows such a
tight-knit relationship on us that we become like family.
We are friends, you and
I, family, if you will, because we are connected, made one, united in Christ.
And so, as Jesus has loved us, so too are we to love each other. Remember, love is an action, and Jesus said
the greatest love is one that is willing to lay down its life for another. He doesn’t say we have to like each other,
but he does call us to love each
other. As we look around church on any
given Sunday, we may see people we know and like, know and don’t like, or don’t
know at all. Whatever. It doesn’t really matter. Whether we like each other or not, Jesus
commands us to look out for each other’s good - even to the point of giving our
life.
Giving our life will
certainly mean something different to each of us. It might mean surrendering your ego, or your
will, or your need to be right or in control.
It means giving up whatever you prize most for the love of God. It could involve making a sacrifice of time,
talent, or treasure, but one thing is for certain: when you love, it can no
longer be all about you. The one who
loves Jesus will do his commands, to love others as he has loved us - freely,
abundantly, sacrificially. Somewhere
along the way, we realize the impossibility of trying to love God and live for
ourselves at the same time, and that’s the point where we surrender, we give
our lives, if you will, not just part of our lives, but our whole lives over to
God.
There’s that old hymn we
sing sometimes that says, “I surrender all.”
It doesn’t say “I surrender half” or
“I surrender part” or “I surrender some.” It says “I surrender all.” Doing that is a way of laying down our life
at the feet of Jesus and saying, “This belongs to you now. Do what you want in me and with me. I want to abide in your love and live in your
grace; I want your joy to be in me and my joy to be made complete. I hold no part of myself back, but I freely
give all of me.”
But then what? Jesus’ instruction is simple: “Go and bear
fruit, fruit that will last (v. 16).
Jesus hints that are two kinds of fruit we can cultivate - fruit that
lasts or fruit that rots. Which one we
produce is determined by the soil in which we are planted. We are what we eat, and what goes in
determines what is produced.
Remember, root determines
fruit. Say that with me. Root determines fruit.
If the root is love, then
the fruit is love – say that with me: if
the root is love, then the fruit is love, and friends, that is always the
fruit that lasts.
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